It is that time of the year when we make new year resolutions.
Yaay! I am so excited to tell you about my resolutions(s) for 2016..... or not.
Ok, actually, I think I have gotten to the "these resolutions are just a waste of thoughts" place.
Why? good question! Some resolutions are just mere thoughts that won't be put into action by the end of the year. Don't get me wrong..... make all the resolutions you want but,
If you don't have a plan to act it out, it all becomes a waste of thought.
So, what do I do when a new year starts? Aha! I will tell you. I make one big decision. I decide on that one big thing I must do and then I make four to five different plans on how to achieve it, I then have my second big decision i.e, If at a point I think my number one big thing might not be achieved due to unforeseen circumstances, I just have to achieve something.... then I make four to five plans again on how to possibly do that. Call it a "back up" plan.
Now, in my little plans are many things to be done but, I definitely work towards it every single day because, it came from the heart and I wear it everyday.
What am I saying? All I am saying is make plans... realistic plans and set realistic goals. There are people that their resolutions will make you be like "are you a superman"? or "really? you must be an alien" seriously! You have to crawl before you walk and walk before you jump. Keep that in mind.
Therefore, as you make your "new year resolutions" or "plans" or whatever it is you do, make sure it is coming from your heart and make sure you can do it in 365/366 days.
No! you don't have to make a resolution every year.... I mean, what is the point if you are going to carry it over next year, and the year after that, and the year after that?
So, calm down. take a deep breath and be in a good mood then, THINK! Don't rush it. It doesn't have to be set on the very first day of the year... The earlier the better though but, don't rush it.
My big plan this year as a person with a blog is; to have more posts on this blog this year. Haha! Now that, is realistic isn't it?
Although, as an employee, I have a big plan this year. As a sister, daughter and friend of so many, I have a big plan this year. As a future mother of brilliant kids, I have a big plan this year.... Haha! see how it goes... No gigantic resolutions, just simple and achievable plans that will make me a "better person". You can therefore say; "Rita's new year resolution is to be a better person". That is absolutely sooo easy right?
Haha! No!
It can"t be all that easy. There must be a level of growth and development in different aspects of life for that to be achieved.
So, If you don't have a plan, make one and if your plan(s) is /are too ridiculous, change that plan / those plans. Trust me, you will rather have a simple plan achieved at the end than a bogus plan still pending at the end. But, don't under-rate yourself.
A simple suggestion for all of you though; "BE GOOD" Lol!
I wish you all a fantastic, prosperous and purpose filled year!!!
I pray we all achieve our goals this year.
HAPPY NEW YEAR!
With Love
Rita-R
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