A PUZZLE.

Hi guys!

So it turns out that I am a consultant.
Yeap! I said it.

Take a look at my Unofficial Qualifications:
Writer 
Relationship expert
Health Consultant (Health, weight loss, Skin Care, facials)
Adviser
Listener
Teacher

OMG! Now I sound like a creep! lol! Like I said.... "unofficial". I am all that to my friends and maybe any other person in need.

Or maybe I just like to gossip, Lmfao!
Nah! It is more than that.

I am a writer, I write stories and I store them or throw them away or... wait! It doesn't matter right now.
I write, So I like to listen to people's stories and form something out of it. I have been doing that since my high school days.
That helped me to become
the listener that I am today.
I like to say it like it is. Maybe that is why my friends consult me.
Haha! I love it when I feel like a consultant.

Anyway, I studied Public Health. Wait! Did you say something? *rolling my eyes*
As I was saying, I studied Public health so, that explains why I am a Health Consultant to my friends. I also had this very terrible face with acne and all. Now my face is clearer so, it doesn't surprise me when a friend seeks for facial tips.

Putting aside the justification for my Social/unofficial Qualifications, I was writing a story when something occurred to me.
A number of questions actually.
Like:

(Partner here could mean Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Wife or Husband)

How much should you tell your partner?
What kind of things should you tell your partner?
WHEN do you tell your partner WHAT?
Is it okay to keep somethings to yourself and not share with your partner?
What are those things you could share that could either cause harm or better your relationship?
How much will you like to know about your partner?
What kind of things will you like your partner to keep from you?


 I believe in "telling it all" But,  what if your partner is the kind that will  use it against you in future?

What if you share something pitiful and the whole relationship is based on one person's pity for the other person? Good or bad?

I don't think there is a perfect relationship. There is either a GOOD Relationship or a BAD Relationship.
But, Things can go bad in a good relationship and vice versa.


Also, a lot of people have a check-list for picking a partner.
What if you fall in love with someone who is totally abstract from your check-list?
What if every criterion is met? That means this partner is perfect right?
But is there any perfect human?

What do you look for when picking a Life-partner? Not Boyfriend or Girlfriend, LIFE-PARTNER!
Do you have to answer all these questions before you pick a life partner?

LOL!

It's just me.... Thinking again.

Keep the mails coming, I'll be glad to know what you think about this one and your answers to some of these questions.

Thank You!



With Love


Rita-R